Look, I'm sorry to have to be the one to tell you this, but it's not. If you don't want to be offended by people with morals, then find a singer who isn't trashy, insulting and obscene to be a fan of. "Lady Gaga" can sing, but she's a downright disgusting person, and she's an embarrassment to all of our society. She's the epitome of everything Hollywood - self-obsessed, slutty, obnoxious, and purposely controvercial, not for the sake of raising awareness for anything, but purely for the sake of being too irritating to ignore. I don't know who she claims to be an advocate of should be more insulted - God or the gays.
A lot of my friends like Lady Gaga. Fine. That doesn't bother me; everyone's entitled to his or her opinion. But don't be surprised when people who believe in true uniqueness and integrity get angry that this abomination of a pop singer hijacks those ideas for the sake of money and attention.